How do I get my boyfriend to kiss me for the first time?
Question by Lizzie: How do I get my boyfriend to kiss me for the first time?
I have not yet had my first kiss and i am extremely nervous. I dream about kissing him all the time and i REALLY want to kiss him but i’m scared. Oh and this is a long distance relationship and I only see him 2 times a year. I really don’t want to scare him away.
This is a long distance relationship and I only get to see him twice a year and the next time i see him isn’t until march. I want to kiss him when i see him but i’m really nervous and for V day he’s getting me flowers and a box of chocolate. I don’t want to scare him away and I dream about kissing him 24/7. HELP!!!
Best answer:
Answer by Billy Bob the Beaner
be a bit more vulnerable/flirty/open about your self.
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Comment from bonr with bling
Time February 15, 2012 at 5:04 pm
when he comes to visit you, try to get some alone time together. then you could try the “sit and talk, rest your head on his shoulder then turn up for a kiss” or the “tackle him and try for a spontaneous kiss” or even “turn to him and say that you want to kiss him and see what he says”.
its obvious that he likes you. he is sending you gifts. so try for some alone time and see if he makes a more or you could try making a move yourself.
Comment from Andy H
Time February 15, 2012 at 5:10 pm
get a boyfriend that lives closer to you and you won’t have to worry
Comment from Mrs. Kerr
Time February 15, 2012 at 5:26 pm
Well, there are a few body positions that are the perfect invitation for a kiss. (And I’m not talking anything sexual.) For example, my favorite with my boyfriend is when we’re cuddling or just hugging and we have our foreheads against each other. It’s perfect because we’re staring into each other’s eyes and all that gushy romantic stuff. Then, I lean in, or he leans in for the kiss. Try to do something like that. Don’t take forever to contemplate how to do it when you’re in the moment, it’ll just make you more nervous; just go for it! And if you’re stressing way too much over it, then you’re simply not ready; don’t worry, the perfect time will come around. Trust me, you don’t want to rush something so precious no matter how much you crave it. If you’re not shy, just tell him how much you like him and how much you want to kiss him, but that you’re a little nervous; hey maybe he’s nervous too! Maybe that will kind of lead him in the right direction. And if you’re bold enough, just do it yourself. Good luck, and I hope you enjoy the next time you see him. Hope all goes well! 
Comment from Šųή☼
Time February 15, 2012 at 5:36 pm
he he.,.,.,k.,.,.,so u want to kiss him.,.,first get a kiss all u have to do is.,.,get closer show u r cheek.,.,any smart guy knew that when his girl shows her cheek or lips so near its only for a kiss.,.get one kiss u will find him comfortable without shy after that.,.,after that u kiss him,.,.,like returning his kiss.,.,
dreamsss.,.,hmm.,.,may be u r a better dreamer than me it seems.,.,almost every distant love dreams of kiss i feel.,.,he he.,.,i dreamt the same once upon a time.,.,and see distant love may break some time.,.,it happened to me.,.,make sure u bond him and communicate him so strong and frequent.,.,
scare why he will not get scared when u kiss.,.,trust me every guy enjoys his girl’s first kiss and he must be expecting it.,.,so don’t wait if u can.,.,if u cant allow him to do and than u try.,.
Comment from Cynthia
Time February 15, 2012 at 4:54 pm
Don’t stress just let it happen natural